Stories In Our Lives

All of us have stories to tell – the stories in our lives.  The best author of those stories are ourselves, not someone searching family history a hundred years from now.  If you think the events that happen to you in your daily life don’t matter, think again. They matter, because those events add up to create our lives.

There is several interesting ways we can record the stories in our lives for our posterity – our children and grandchildren. What we leave behind for them can help them make sense of who they are, and they will see that the lessons we learned can help them in their daily lives too.  “You mean Grandpa got suspended from school for fighting?” or “Wow, I didn’t know Grandma looked for a job for a whole year before she got that job at the newspaper.  She worked there for 30 years; I bet she’s glad she didn’t give up her job hunt before the year was up.”

Where can you find great stories to tell?Family Stories

Write Your Life History

Write your life history: Similar to writing an autobiography. Outline your  life; pick out one or two important life-changing events in each five year period and write about them.  The lessons you learned, spiritual testimony if that applies, what you would do if you could. Don’t make it all serious; add funny events and light-hearted moments.  Include a list of favorites: movies, songs, TV shows, etc. to identify the era you are writing about.

Sample of Stories in Our Lives

Record Your Life History

Record your life history: The human voice is unique to each individual. We often say one thing they miss most is that person’s voice, or their laugh. If you don’t want to write your life history, then speak it into a recorder on your smart phone. Today, they are small enough to fit in a purse or pocket, and you can tell your life history in spare moments in your day. Don’t worry about transcribing the recordings; leave that for the future family historian.  Just label the recordings with your name, date recorded, and main subject on the file and leave the rest to someone else in a later time. Store them in the cloud, or download them to a jump drive and store an airtight container or safe deposit box, and let someone else know where they are.

Photo History

Photo history: Photos are an excellent way to augment a written or oral life history, but they can’t do the whole job.  We all need to do our life history to share the stories in our lives and then we add the pictures!  Be sure to record the date of a picture, where it was taken and who’s in it.  Nothing worse than finding a picture and trying to guess who the people are.

There are many ways we can share the stories of our lives with our posterity.  The important thing is to get started! Do a little each day; don’t put it off.